For as long as I can remember, I’ve been over-responsible. I’ve felt that I have to be strong and so avoid showing ‘weakness’ by asking for help, expressing needs or sharing my feelings. I’ve hung back and dimmed my light so that my brother and then others could shine and they wouldn’t feel the need to reject or abandon me for taking up too much space or making them feel inferior in some way.
Posts By: crimyla
Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? Marriage Therapists Weigh In
As some of you know, I am the author of three books on infidelity: Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband?, Blindsided By His Betrayal, and After a Good Man Cheats: How to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy With Your Wife. I was recently quoted in the Huffington Post as an expert on affairs in marriage. The… Read more »
Looking for a bridal shower or baby shower gift?
Those looking for something for newlyweds or gentle reminder to new parents that the marriage should come first may appreciate Caroline Madden’s latest book, “How to Go From Soul Mates to Roommates in 10 Easy Steps.”
What women really want from men…
Men, if there is one video you should watch to understand what women really want from you during those “deep conversations” this is it. It perfectly describes what a woman wants from her partner and how counterintuitive it is for men to give her exactly what she needs.
My New Book, “Blindsided By His Betrayal” is out on Kindle
Your husband cheated on you, and now you don’t recognize yourself. You used to be so together, so trusting. Now you’re falling apart and doing things you would have never even considered doing. This book will help you figure out what to do as you deal with these explosive emotions. It’s important that you understand that your feelings–erratic and unpredictable as they may be–are normal. You need to understand why you feel the things you feel and what to do with those feelings.