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My approach to relationship counseling is solution-focused: helping you solve issues that prevent you from having the relationship you want. I strive to understand your problem and to provide guidance and feedback. My therapy style is direct and interactive.

One factor that may determine whether a relationship can survive infidelity is the nature of the affair. Some affairs lack any emotional commitment, while others involve a deeper level of intimacy and connection than is found within the primary relationship. Often the hurt partner asks the same questions over and over about the affair in an effort to protect themselves from a future affair. This tends to backfire and the partner who had the affair starts to feel as they will be in the doghouse forever and may get discouraged. This leads to both partners being stuck.